Surgery is four weeks from yesterday! It still seems far away, but I know the next month will fly by. We'll be working on more fundraising ("like" Teddy's Facebook page for information on all the fundraisers, there are several!) and making arrangements for my hospital stay and our support afterwards.
I've been talking to my kids about the donation, and it's always interesting to hear their comments and questions. Teddy's mom gave us a cute book about a dog that got a new kidney from his 'big brother', so we've read that a few times. I told my kids that Teddy was sick and I was going to help him, and that a doctor was going to take one of my kidneys out of my belly and put it in Teddy's belly. My four-year-old's first question (my three-year-old has shown no interest in this topic, he just ignores us!) was, "Will the doctor get really little and you'll eat him?"
Well, no, he will make some cuts in my belly. "That will hurt!"
It would, but I will have medicine that will make me not feel anything (I don't want to tell him I'll be asleep, I'm paranoid about giving him fears about going to sleep himself! Also a reason I will never use sleep as a way to describe death!). "Oh."
Today, his comments included, "The doctor will use a really sharp knife to cut you." And we practiced our math by talking about how we have two kidneys, and because I am giving Teddy one of mine, I will have one left. "And you will grow a new one?" Nope, I won't grow a new one, I will just have one left. You have two kidneys, and so does your brother! Maybe when you're older you can give one of your kidneys to someone who needs it. "Yeah, and then we'll ALL have ONE kidney!"
We have watched Teddy's news stories a few times, and so anytime my kids see a toddler with tubes or other 'owies', they ask if it's Teddy. I was reading Camden's blog the other day and they asked if Camden was Teddy.
So far, they seem to have no problem with the idea that I'll be in the hospital for a few days, and hopefully that continues. My husband has been in the hospital several times, so the kids know what it's like and aren't afraid of it, but they have never been away from me for so long. I am sure they will have a fun time with their aunt and Mammo, and probably won't even miss me. :)
I've been talking to my kids about the donation, and it's always interesting to hear their comments and questions. Teddy's mom gave us a cute book about a dog that got a new kidney from his 'big brother', so we've read that a few times. I told my kids that Teddy was sick and I was going to help him, and that a doctor was going to take one of my kidneys out of my belly and put it in Teddy's belly. My four-year-old's first question (my three-year-old has shown no interest in this topic, he just ignores us!) was, "Will the doctor get really little and you'll eat him?"
Well, no, he will make some cuts in my belly. "That will hurt!"
It would, but I will have medicine that will make me not feel anything (I don't want to tell him I'll be asleep, I'm paranoid about giving him fears about going to sleep himself! Also a reason I will never use sleep as a way to describe death!). "Oh."
Today, his comments included, "The doctor will use a really sharp knife to cut you." And we practiced our math by talking about how we have two kidneys, and because I am giving Teddy one of mine, I will have one left. "And you will grow a new one?" Nope, I won't grow a new one, I will just have one left. You have two kidneys, and so does your brother! Maybe when you're older you can give one of your kidneys to someone who needs it. "Yeah, and then we'll ALL have ONE kidney!"
We have watched Teddy's news stories a few times, and so anytime my kids see a toddler with tubes or other 'owies', they ask if it's Teddy. I was reading Camden's blog the other day and they asked if Camden was Teddy.
So far, they seem to have no problem with the idea that I'll be in the hospital for a few days, and hopefully that continues. My husband has been in the hospital several times, so the kids know what it's like and aren't afraid of it, but they have never been away from me for so long. I am sure they will have a fun time with their aunt and Mammo, and probably won't even miss me. :)
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